1. Be a bit flexible when searching for your love soul mate. Don’t discount a man for silly reasons, like his astrological sign or his hairline.

2. Keep yourself in shape to attract love. Men are visual and get turned on by a woman who is fit, healthy and sexy.

3. Stay informed on what’s going on in the world. Men love a fascinating, stimulating conversation.
 
4. Have a sense of humor. Love should be fun. No one is perfect, be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously.
 
5. If you don’t cook, learn. Men love a woman who cooks. It makes them feel pampered, loved and cared for.

6. Keep wearing that sexy lingerie. Your love life won’t stop. Your man will only have eyes for you when he knows that he has something enticing to look at when he gets home form a hard day at work.

7. Develop your own interests. Nothing is sexier to a man than a woman who is passionate about something.

8. Take an interest in his hobbies. Even if you hate sports, you can cheer on his team or at least make him sandwiches and bring him a beer while he is enjoying the game.

Finding love is not easy, but these love tips can move you in the right direction toward your soul mate.

A Beverly Hills Matchmaker, Marla Martenson is the author of Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting.