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Dating Services vs. Matchmaking Services
Dating vs. Matchmaking Services Soul Mates and Life Ties!  Past life connections with soul mates, how to get in touch with your past life soul mates. What is a Dating Service?

A dating service lets members choose their own matches. A dating service generally takes on as many people as possible, and you have to go to the office and select someone you would like to meet that is also willing to meet you. Because it always involves photos, usually a small percentage of the “hottest” members get selected the most. That’s great for them, but there are lots of other great people that get overlooked.


What is a Matchmaking Service?

In a matchmaking service, professional matchmakers will match you with other members. They do all of the work for you, which is great for busy professionals. At your initial meeting, they sit down with you and get to know your personality, interests, hobbies and what you are looking for in a partner. Then, they take it from there and select someone for you to meet who they feel is compatible. Based on your criteria, the matchmaker rules out people you would not be interested in meeting. Also, the matchmakers get valuable feedback from both members after the first date, helping them to get closer to a perfect match.


What a Service Can Do For You.

A matchmaking service can make it possible to meet wonderful, high quality, like-minded people who you would not have an opportunity to meet otherwise. It can save you lots of time and energy while looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. It can outsource your dating needs and cut right to the chase about what you are really looking for. A wonderful benefit for a woman is that you don’t have to be on the receiving end of a guy in a bar leaning over to ask the question, “Hi, do you come here often?” This “meat market” atmosphere is generally undesirable.

Both men and women can feel comfortable knowing that the service has taken into consideration what they are looking for and introducing them to only people who fit their specifications. People who are busy and really serious about finding a long-term relationship can really benefit from these types of services. Using a service can also hone your dating skills because you will be going out with many more dates than if you were left on your own.

What a Service Cannot Do For You.

A service can never guarantee that you will have chemistry with anyone you date. Sometimes clients get frustrated that they paid a large sum of money and feel they have not received the “product.” But finding the love of your life is very different from buying a car! If you want to buy a new car, you go to the dealership, hand over your money, and you have a product in your hands. Not so with a matchmaking service. When you are dealing with live human energy, chemistry cannot be predicted or promised. Just because a service will sign you up, does not mean that there is a guarantee that you will find your soul mate. It is a gamble, but well worth it if you do find the love of your life.

A Beverly Hills Matchmaker, Marla Martenson is the author of Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting.



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By Green, Thursday, June 19, 2008 10:46:21 AM
Trying to find the right partner can be really hard. It is much harder if you are in your mid thirties when most people around that age are already married. I do not think it is a good idea to pay for a match making service or a dating service. Sometimes its just better to be patient instead of being desperate. Be patient and usually things will work out for themselves and you would meet MR Right.
By Anne, Saturday, June 14, 2008 04:47:59 PM
I have been told that when you let the universe know what you want in a partner and are open to recieve them you will get it. Mind you it takes time. Don't look so hard...do your own thing relax don't jump at the first person that takes an interest. You also do need to reach out and learn something new, a new sport, etc.
By Anne, Saturday, June 14, 2008 04:34:51 PM
By Carol, Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:28:00 PM
i wish i knew who my kindred soul/soulmate on earth is, im still looking and wish i knew his name and what he looked like and what state he lives in. im 46 been married 2x i have 5 kids and 2 grandchilren and still searching for the one that wants to grow old with me and enjoy life with me, and love me for whom i am not what i look like :(
By Carol, Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:20:11 PM
i wish i knew who my kindred soul/soulmate on earth is, im still looking and wish i knew his name and what he looked like and what state he lives in. im 46 been married 2x i have 5 kids and 2 grandchilren and still searching for the one that wants to grow old with me and enjoy life with me, and love me for whom i am not what i look like :(
By Ishmeal, Monday, June 09, 2008 10:16:30 AM
I have tried dating sites. And I feel it is somewhat like heads or tails. You have ups and downs. Personally I like dating sites better because it takes the presure off when talking to someone. Mostly if you are shy like me.
By carla, Wednesday, June 04, 2008 01:41:37 PM
plus everything cost money. nothing ever is free.
By carla, Wednesday, June 04, 2008 01:40:52 PM
sylvia browne says your soulmate is on the otherside. yor kindred souls are on here on earth. so marla you have it reversed.

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