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Being Fabulous No Matter What!
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My mother always told me that I can be, “Fabulous no matter what.” It’s not easy in today’s superficial world, but high self-esteem can be more attractive than surgically-enhanced looks. Women just need to learn how to be fabulous no matter what.


I was listening to a talk-show host on the radio in my car on my way home from work. The host was talking about past relationships and the fact that if it was over at some point, there was no reason to ever get back together with the same woman. He said, “In my life, I don’t push the rewind button!” I found that very interesting. I really took some time and pondered that message. I embraced that comment for myself as, “Don’t press the rewind button and rehash past mistakes in any areanot just relationships.”


The past is the past. Yes, it is possible to re-unite with someone from the past and have it turn out fabulous the second time around. Sometimes it’s a matter of timing. But when it comes to being bitter about a past relationship, spending time rehashing the past, or going over and over what you should have, or could have, done, then do not press the rewind button! Learn from the past, and where relationships are concerned, realize that chances are, the problems you had before could rear their ugly head again.

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Take each person as a new and fresh experience, and see yourself as nothing short of fabulous! Be glad that you are you! So many people wish they were someone else, or that they looked like the latest celebrity or runway model. We have fashion models in our culture literally starving themselves to death. We have all ages of women filling their breasts with sacs of saline just because they think it’s the thing to doeven when many men tell them they love their breasts just the way they are.


We use Botox on every line on our faces because we’re afraid we might be mistaken for our real age. But are we just this “container” of skin, muscle and bones, or are we soul, spirit, creativity, light, love, and inspiration? Look to the inside and you will find everything that you need, everything that you are looking for.


Realize you are indeed fabulous. Yes, it can be a challenge not to conform, and we all want to look our best. There is nothing wrong with that. But our culture and the media has taken all of this to such an extreme that no one feels good about themselves anymore. And I don’t know about you, but I want a man in my life who is going to love me and stand by me when some crows’ feet make an appearance, I don’t fit into a size zero, and I need to touch up those grey hairs a little more often.


I was laughing with my husband the other day at a shoe store. I was trying on a pair of boots and I said, “I used to wear a 7, but now I’m an 8. Everything seems to get a little bigger as we age.” Then he said, “Yeah, but then you’re gonna shrink!” We don’t feel rich enough, thin enough, “with it” enough. Well, I say, enough is enough! You have probably heard the saying, “If you don’t love yourself, no one else can love you.” It is so true. Even when you do attract your soul mate into your life, if your self-esteem is low and you keep putting yourself down, he or she probably won’t stick around that long. Be confident that you’re fabulous no matter what.


A Beverly Hills Matchmaker, Marla Martenson is the author of Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting.

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By Melvin, Wednesday, July 16, 2008 08:12:32 AM
Being fabulous is very synonymous with being confident with yourself. For me it is a very daunting and hard task. At some point I do not feel I am unique and hence I don't feel proud of myself. But now I'm trying to be more confident and fabulous.
By Prasanna, Friday, July 11, 2008 01:51:40 PM
It is an important point to be noted and kept in mind. No matter what, you remain yourself. Nobody should stop you in this world from doing anything that you wish to. Enjoy each and every moment. Life is to live but only once. So be very charming. Your happiness will be reflected in your face which will make you beautiful. It is the only key by which you can attract others in a easy way.
By Melvin, Tuesday, July 08, 2008 09:39:48 PM
I am fabulous, very heartwarming. I think this post is very inspiring to me. I lack self-esteem so much and so as my self confidence. I can see that these are the things that keep me from acting what I should. Maybe I can someday realize that I am indeed a fabulous creation of God.
By vera, Friday, July 04, 2008 12:32:31 AM
I just want to rebuild my life with my ex husband. There is nothing in this life more important than love that is lasting and forever. Never lose sight of how important your loved ones are to you.
By Dawn, Saturday, June 28, 2008 10:47:23 PM
This is a great post. I am struggling with self-esteem issues after losing my job, nervous breakdown and a cervical cancer scare. I am on the way to rebuilding, just got a job offer and I am rebuilding. Just by going to an interview, I felt that I got a part of my inner self back. Thank you so much for this article, it has helped tremdously. I myself look forward to the crow's feet, the frown lines on my forehead and the imprint on the side's of my face from smiling. That is part of me and the experiences of growth. Thank you for all you do to help and advise people. You have truly impacted a world full of people by sharing your gift.
By Darline, Friday, June 27, 2008 04:27:14 PM
I always feel sixteen! That was and is a fun part of my life. I'm really 58!
By Green, Thursday, June 19, 2008 11:45:31 AM
I agree with you. Being fabulous starts from within. Love yourself, feel confident and feel great from within. I sometimes wonder why people are afraid of others knowing their real age. I think everyone should be proud of what age they are. The fact of life is that we will age, what is important is to age gracefully and that would depend on the life you have led.

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