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How To Be Irresistible
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Finding our true love involves chemistry. How to be irresistible is a complex equation! I know there are pheromones in play, another mysterious idea, and probably a lot of other factors to finding true love. Even with platonic friendships, we tend to gravitate more to certain people we find attractive, while others turn us off. Thus, we want to vibrationally pull into our experience only those fabulous souls who we find irresistible, with whom we have electrifying chemistry!


And when it comes to chemistry and finding out how to be irresistible, there is the conscious part and the unconscious part. For instance, there are certain things that almost everyone finds attractive. Men tend to be attracted to features that suggest youth and fertilityoften an ample bust, a slim body, and soft facial features. Women tend to be drawn to tall men with broad shoulders and masculine features. They also like men who appear to have wealth or the ability to acquire it because they want to feel as if the man can support the family.


Everyone has their own taste, but biology has a lot to do with what we find attractive. This unconscious part, which we call “chemistry,” is actually pheromones. A pheromone is any chemical produced by a living organism that transmits a message to other members of the same species.

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There are three stages of falling in love. First, there is lust. It is driven by our sex hormones: testosterone and estrogen. Then there is attraction, I like to call it the lovesick phase, during which you can’t eat, can’t sleep, and it feels like you have butterflies in your stomach. You are falling in love, caused by a surge of dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin. The third stage of falling in love is attachment, which keeps couples together. But this is where it gets dangerous for women.


Do you ever wonder why, after making out or making love with someone new, you immediately want to be in an exclusive relationship with him? Perhaps you even think you are in love with him! It’s because the chemicals (oxytocin and vasopressin) cause you to “attach” and want to “nest,” which can cause us to make really bad choices in men.


We can even know in our head that the guy is not right, but we suddenly feel attached and wonder why he’s not calling. We are checking our voice mail, e-mail, Blackberry, and pager, waiting for his call. Women should be taught this in school, “Girls, beware of the oxytocin! It could ruin your life!”


So, when people talk about being irrestible, there’s no doubt chemistry plays a huge role in finding true love. It’s like Cupid’s arrow shooting you with a magic potion. That’s the power of pheromones. They are present in underarm perspiration and are detected by a small organ composed of a few small pits a few centimeters up the nose. Many factors, including hormones, genetics, metabolism, and diet, influence the odor that emanates from our sweat. So, maybe you want to think again before using your antiperspirant!



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By Maria, Wednesday, September 17, 2008 09:06:25 AM
The fact is -Men love to chase women. Be less available and they will pursue you. Being clingy is not attractive. If they are not #1 in your life- they will wonder why, and the chase begins.
By Prasanna, Friday, August 15, 2008 02:52:33 AM
I feel like to be irresistable, you must have the love in your eyes for all your fellow beings. Attract others with your attitude and gestures. Do not go beyond anyone but you be the inspiration for others. I try to be like this. This had helped me a lot of times in projecting me in a better way.
By Green, Monday, August 04, 2008 09:22:03 AM
Melvin, you hit the nail on the head. I think the key to being irresistible is confidence. Having a lot of confidence in yourself does count a lot to being irresistible. I do have confidence in myself but I don't have the one that makes me irresistible... I am working on it
By Prasanna, Wednesday, July 30, 2008 11:31:55 AM
Its always good to come out with your own positives rather than depending upon others. I believe in me strongly. So i will never for others behaviours. Project yourself in a better way. Try to have the first impression as the best impression where ever you go because you may not get a second first chance ever in your life.
By Melvin, Friday, July 25, 2008 07:29:28 AM
Pretty interesting Lavern. I have my own opinion here. I think it is confidence. How people carry themselves regardless of who they are and what they look. It is nice to see people who are very irresistible and it's good to see how they act.
By Lavern, Monday, July 21, 2008 07:25:21 AM
Being irresistible for me means there is what they called the “X” factor. I can’t identify the x,y.z factor but it should come out from within. It is like looking over the positive side of life and it would reflect in your smile. I think it’s not just the physical aspect that we should take care of but most especially our inner thoughts and ideas about life.
By Melvin, Saturday, July 12, 2008 07:29:15 PM
Great article. Everyone of us has our own chemistry and I always feel it is one thing that makes us unique. The great thing is that it's like matchmaking. We are not compatible with many people and we can only feel chemistry with few people and those are the people that we enjoy to be with.
By Prasanna, Friday, July 11, 2008 01:39:30 PM
What is irresistable here? I suppose this is yet another article to explain about how love develops. Just the words have been changed here and there. According to this article, i say that the second stage is important. Because after this, we have the transition state to love. This must be builded on pure understanding. Lust must not influence in this stage.
By Jonni, Thursday, July 10, 2008 08:16:25 PM
read 'what men want in a woman' and don't be clingy. Take it slow and be independent. Don't assume because you make love that they want a relationship with you.
By Christen, Sunday, July 06, 2008 11:15:59 AM
its saying... look at what you you eat a lot of junk, or fast foods? not good... look at your family. i know that you can't change that but if your family is mostly big, try to eat right and work out. i walk a lot... yes i know it doesn't do much but if you have a high metabolism it works really well... also go out dancing! its fun and you work a lot of muscles you didn't think you knew how to.

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