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How To Find Your True Soul Mate
How To Find Your True Soul Mate Soul Mates and Life Ties! Past life connections with soul mates, how to get in touch with your past life soul mates. How do you find your soul mate? Many great sages believe that the best way to find your true soul mate is not to look for them. Eventually, a soul mate will find you. Even stranger, your true soul mate is not always who you think he or she should be. What the universe sends to you in terms of an ideal soul mate is often disappointing to most people because we often get what we need and not what we want.

The Buddha would say that soul mates are teachers. These are people you have known in a previous lifetime who have come back in this lifetime to teach me a lesson. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes several soul mates to teach us just one lesson. Usually, the lesson is about overcoming one of the following negative emotional traits: jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, controlling behavior, fear of abandonment, fear of rejection, learning to let go or codependency in general. This is supposed to be especially true of those people who are considered to be soul mate reincarnations. They are not always ideal for you. In fact, it is not at all unusual for them to be problematic.




Most people think that they have found their true soul mate just because they feel a strong connection to a person. Unfortunately, that connection may not have anything to do with spirituality at all. It is amazing how easily lust and familiarity can convince us that we are spiritually connected to someone.

As many of us repeat our patterns, the person may just seem familiar, because they remind you of an ex-boyfriend, a parent, or even someone who abused you as a child. For this reason, some sages hate the way the term soul mate is often used by people as an excuse to stay in a relationship where they are clearly being abused. 




There is also Oprah Winfrey's theory about soul mates, which is that "that everybody is your soul mate." In theory, you don't have to have sex with every soul mate you meet. A soul mate can also be a child, a relative, a co-worker or even just a good friend. One of the hazards of getting involved sexually and emotionally with someone who we believe was sent to us by God, or who we think was sent to us as "an angel on Earth," is that we often become over attached to them and have trouble severing the connection.

Notice how anyone you've gotten rid off doesn't qualify as a soul mate, but anyone who dumped you automatically ALWAYS makes the grade? Ironically, you hear most people describe the last person who dumped them as their one and only soul mate. If they were such a great soul mate, then why didn't they stick around to build a future with you? This is why you have to be careful about describing anyone as your true soul mate or the perfect soul mate.

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By Lisa, Monday, October 13, 2008 05:51:11 PM
 I do believe everyone has a soulmate and you will meet that soulmate when you least expect it. And they are there to help learn something different each time, in each life. But the main thing is to realize it so that you can get on with each other before the time of the next lesson starts. I guess it all depends on where you are also in your spirituality, how much you really believe in all of this and expect that we are all here to learn from our mistakes. Thank you for allowing to post my comment, May you all find your soulmate oneday and be happy that you did because their out there.
By Amy, Thursday, October 09, 2008 11:24:16 AM
 you werent soal mates at anytime...your soals remembered each other from a past life and you care about each other from that past life and your spirit just remembered that...its a memory...the feelings are very real...but not a soal mate
By Beulah, Saturday, October 04, 2008 01:05:11 AM
 I HAD A FRIEND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 13YRS HE LEFT ME TWICE FIRST TIME HE CAN BACK SECOND TIME HE GOT MARRIED HE TOLD ME A YEAR LATER WE HAD A CONNETION IF I SAID TO CALL ME IT WOULD HAPPY IT WAS IF WE WERE PSYCHIC WE KNEWN WHEN THE OTHER WAS SAD OR JUST NEEDED TO TALK TO ONE ANOTHER ALL THOUGH I WAS MARRIED WHEN WE MEET IT WAS LIKE LOVE AT FIRST SITE. I UNSTAND THAT I COULD NOT BE THERE FOR HIM AWAY EMOTIONLY BUT I STILL MISS THE WONDERFUL TIME WE HAD TOGETHER I STILL TRYING TO UNSTAND WHAT HAPPY WITH OWN FRIEND WHY HE FELT HE COULD NOT TALK TO ME AFGER ALL WE BEEN THOUGH I JUST WANT TO KNOWN IF WE WERE SOUL MATE AT ANYTIME AT ALL NEED TO KNOWN. THANK BREAKHEARTED.

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