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Is He Cheating? Signs Your Man Is Cheating on You |
Infidelity is a complex activity that requires a lot of covert behavior and acting, so there can be many signs that your lover is cheating.
Perhaps one of the most revealing things about a person is not what they are hiding, but what they choose to reveal. Studies have shown that many cheaters, liars, and criminals will try to foil detection by somehow putting the evidence right in front of your nose. For instance, a serial cheater who constantly receives phone calls on cell phone might leave his cell phone in your plain view. The logic behind this is that if you perceive that he trusts, you it would be just too stupid of him to leave the cell phone out of site.
Other cheaters will also try to put you off the scent by overdoing it when it comes to wearing clothing or jewelry given by you or stuffing their wallets full of pictures of you. This is a message to you that he or she loves you when in reality all they are doing is trying to throw you off track by compensating for what they are really doing in life – betraying you.
On the other side of the coin, there is the actual hiding of objects. If you suspect your partner is cheating and there are many locked doors, cupboards, and boxes in his or her abode, then it may not necessarily mean that the person is simply more private than most people. It is very possible, that like Bluebeard’s closet, that those locked places are full of the skeletons in that person’s promises including mementos, receipts, photographs, and other information about an affair.
Perhaps the biggest indication that you might be dealing with a cheater is if they stop acting as if they are a part of your life. They may lose complete interest in family, friends, or following through on mutual financial goals or plans for the future. Your mate also might be reluctant to go out of town for any reason, as that might cause a crisis in his or her other relationship.
Typically, when both men and women are unfaithful, they will not be as willing to get as cozy with you physically. He or she may roll over and make sure that you are facing their back all night. They may not hold your hand in public and if you attempt to do so, they may pull away in a manner that seems to say, “I don’t need your support.”
There are also some types of cheaters that practice a bizarre form of physical condescension when they cheat. They may actually feel sorry for you but their main intent is to show you affection and support (even when they don’t mean it). This can result in things like giving you a big hug followed by a series of small pats on the back (as if you need comforted). The person may also squeeze your upper arm or punch you playfully in the arm as if the two of you were cheerleaders. This is an attempt to establish the physical intimacy that is between you as being more friendly then sexual.
As you can see, telling for sure whether or not someone is cheating can be a very complex thing full of various confusing behaviors that can be quite difficult to analyze.
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