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Is He Your Soul Mate?
Find your true love soul mate Soul Mates and Life Ties!  Past life connections with soul mates, how to get in touch with your past life soul mates. If you are asking yourself “is he your soul mate?”…chances are he’s not. Usually, a soul mate is self-evident. There is never any doubt in your mind that he is the real thing.

Most of the people that seem to appear in our lives as soul mates are the products of wishing. The problem is that the process of wishing someone is a soul mate does not necessarily make that person a soul mate.

If you are going to wish for love, be sure to make that wish as simple as possible. The wish can be a short prayer or request to heaven. Wishing for the perfect soul mate too hard or too often creates a rebound effect.

The universe does not like an imbalance and it may perceive the emotion, intense desire, or desperation you are attaching to the wish as a kind of "shove" that throws others out of balance. For instance, if you ask for your ex-husband to be separated from his new girlfriend, you might find one of your own important relationships seems to suddenly disintegrate. Every single person has his or her own guardian angels and fairies that protect them from other people's malevolent wishes.

Another theory is that the purer the soul, the less vulnerable the person is to the bad wishes of others. The person literally has the ability to transcend vengeful or negative thought or energy either by turning it into good energy or sending the energy back to its source. In essence, true love soul mates don’t cure each other or get jealous.

Negative wishes that are inspired by an emotion, such as jealousy, also often backfire, even if the wish is justified. For instance, wishing that your ex-husband's girlfriend was out of the picture so that you could receive more child support is a wish that is likely not to be fulfilled. You are better off to rephrase the wish, "I wish for the highest good for my children."

When it comes to wishing, sometimes it is better to wish for the essence of a thing, rather than the thing itself. For instance, wishing that a certain person always be a part of your life as a soul mate might result in you suffering a lifetime of unrequited desire as this individual drains your energy and resources while at the same time resisting intimacy. It is also a bad idea to wish for a soul mate by name as in "I wish so and so would come back to me." 

You are best to ask for something general, such as "I wish for the perfect soulmatethat is mine by Divine Grace." Or "I wish for the highest good for both me and so-and so." This takes the controlling aspect that can cause a negative rebound reaction in your life, out of the matter of reincarnation soul mates.

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By sharon, Monday, January 21, 2013 08:47:21 PM
Thought I had married my soulmate but not so sure anymore. it's like he's only happy if i'm setting at home while he does his own thing.
By Sue, Thursday, October 14, 2010 04:07:03 PM
I am positive I have never met my soulmate. I'm beginning to think I do not have one. I have been looking for a companion all my life with no success.
By Adrienne, Sunday, September 19, 2010 10:16:42 PM
I have met my soul mate 2 years ago im pretty positive he loves me like i love him the same. but he is a really good man and i have been in bad relationships for years. i have to learn how to accept his goodness and kindness its a learning process. hopefully he will want to marry me and i will be ready for him when he propose. i know i will it seems things are getting better.
By Amanda, Saturday, September 11, 2010 12:55:25 AM
I feel like i have found my soul mate. Although it seems in this life time our relationship is tough going. I do know that we have had many past lifes together. So whether our souls chose to be together again in this lifetime or not. I have wonderfull memories from this lifetime and past lifetimes. Yes it would hurt if we weren't together in this lifetime but if that's what the soul needs to grow. Then that's what must happen.
By Diana, Thursday, September 09, 2010 08:11:16 AM
Can I find love again. Lost my husband 3 years ago. He was my soul mate. They are hard to find these days.
By april, Sunday, January 18, 2009 03:46:26 PM
I feel in love with this person and i felt like he was my soulmate. Everyone else does not like him. I dont know. I guess thats the problem, hes not my soulmate if he was i would know. I dont know what to do. Its been 10 months. I think he has someone in his country. can some one give me feed back i need help??? Thanks thanks Aprila
By stephanie, Wednesday, September 10, 2008 11:23:22 AM
I would like to know if the guy I am seeing at this present time is my soul mate? We have been around each other since the 5th grade. We end up going our own ways and we keep in touch with each other and now we currently are seeing each other. We have been with each other for a year now.
By mary, Thursday, August 21, 2008 12:59:46 PM
i'm still waiting on my soul mate i seem to end up with men in the past who are abusive why that is i don't no?still in an abusive marriage.
By nadine, Wednesday, August 20, 2008 05:49:52 AM
All I can say is THANKYOU so much! God bless!
By Prasanna, Thursday, August 14, 2008 01:34:12 PM
Something is gonna happen in life. We cannot control our destiny. I have seen it many times. So just live the life as it goes on. Be ready to forgive because life is short. Accept others faults because no guy is perfect. Show your caringness always and you will get what you wanted.

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