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Knowing What You Can’t Live Without
How To Find Your Soul Mate Soul Mates and Life Ties!  Past life connections with soul mates, how to get in touch with your past life soul mates. Here are some qualities you might want to consider before getting into a relationship:

Brains: How intelligent do you want your partner to be? Do you want someone with whom you can have intellectually stimulating conversations, or do you feel threatened by someone who seems to “know it all”?

Status: Is it important that you be from the same social circle? If you lead a life of dinner parties and theater, and your partner has never ventured beyond the local cineplex, you may find that your interests are just too divergent to find common ground.

Religion: If you and your partner are from different religious backgrounds, you may find yourself having conflicts during the holidays, visiting with your families, and in raising children. If you are not very observant, you may be willing to let your partner have the upper hand in deciding religious matters. But if your religion is important to you, think long and hard before hooking up with someone who doesn’t share the same views.

Politics: Although Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver have managed to maintain an apparently successful marriage despite vastly different political backgrounds, this is certainly an exception to the rule. Your political ideals say a lot about your views on social issues, government regulation, the environment, and so many other things. If your politics don’t “mesh,” you may find yourself arguing about major life issues.

Culture: Lisa’s family is from China. Lisa’s fiancé, Anthony, is from a boisterous Italian family. When Lisa and Anthony took both their parents out to dinner, it was disastrous. Lisa’s parents were appalled by the way Anthony’s parents laughed so loudly in the restaurant and joked around with the waiter. Anthony’s parents found Lisa’s parents to be “stuffy” and too “stiff” for their tastes. Lisa and Anthony are always going to be dealing with this “culture clash” at future family gatherings.

Common interests: How important is it to you that your partner and you do everything together? If your boyfriend loves football and you can’t stand it, will you start to resent how much time he spends in front of the television during football season?

When considering a long-term relationship, these issues can become critical in determining whether you will succeed in building a lasting partnership. It is important to clarify in your mind what you can really “live with” in a partner who you hope will be in your life for a very long time. Major differences in these areas can become divisive sources of tension in a relationship. You can prevent this from happening by giving plenty of thought to the qualities you want in your future partner, and not compromising by settling for less.

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By ginger, Monday, July 14, 2008 11:30:04 AM
I do not like anything about my husband, or his family.
By Jennifer, Monday, July 14, 2008 10:10:18 AM
I think something important to consider is that you do want to be able to enjoy your partners friendships and get along with those people. If your partner enjoys having them over, and you don't that will cause tension and resentment in the relationship. You can't expect your partner alienate him/herself to satisfy you. My last relationship wouldn't have worked because all of his friends were really his ex's friends.
By Roma, Monday, July 14, 2008 09:33:41 AM
Celebrating diversity is what life and any relationship should be all about. On a positive note having different values , attitudes, opinions and life experiences provides that extra spice in life. We learn to develop human qualities such as tolerance, patience, and seeing another person's point of view. Don't we teach our children to do the same. Keep an open and let live
By Melvin, Saturday, July 12, 2008 11:00:39 AM
It's always hard to commit onto relationships. I agree with what you have said here. But the thing is people are too impatient. Sometimes they reap the fruits too early and it is causing something that is not good on both parties. Clarifying your mind is a key here.
By Lavern, Saturday, July 12, 2008 08:35:28 AM
Nice article, it is really a great help for those individual looking for a partner in the future. Well, there are lots of things to consider when looking or choosing for a partner especially with those who want to settle down and have a blissful life with their own family in the future. All of the things enumerated should be carefully analyzed. Do not say the quote that says, “Will cross the bridge when we get there” or you jus t realize it’s too late.
By Lily, Friday, July 11, 2008 01:50:30 PM
Hello! I am having a very hard time finding true love it seem like my relationship last for no more than 1yr. Will i ever find love and get married.
By Susan, Friday, July 11, 2008 12:06:57 PM
REMEMBER, Jealosy is not love and love is unconditional, we have to be alone for awhile to go within ourselves to search for what we desire in another to complete us on the earthy level........however, true love never leaves and it is important to note that this person will be your friend first this is where the desire for one another starts............
By Susan, Friday, July 11, 2008 12:04:01 PM
This goes without saying.....If it is the perfect someone you will have your communications clear and this will happan because you will be friends first.........and it will be love at first sight but also love of the spirit and soul level that is mature and the right energy and all the right pieces will fall into place............there will be common interest and dreams, this person will have class and culture because when WE ARE AWARE, WE ATTRACT THE of luck in love
By Susan, Friday, July 11, 2008 11:58:48 AM
I believe that there is someone special for everyone or at least special choices to consider. I myself have been married twice, and in a long term relationship of over 5 years. I know that none of the above worked for me and I was totally committed and considered myself the perfect partner I see now that we did not have the same "ENERGY" THAT MAGIC SOMETHING SOMETHING, that is truely needed. In my last long term relationship (and I was faithful with all 3) and very much a relationship one man woman........I did feel more alone with him that without him, I needed a healing and now I know the type of man I like to complete me, and I will never allow someone into my life unless I am attracted to at least 8 of 10 much needed strong points. Another something to mention, whether you believe or not, Astrology really explains why things in our lives happan and why they dont, maybe we could use some more astrological dating services.........My time is coming, as soon as Saturn moves out and Jupiter moves into my 7th house, I will have more than one choice.....however, Uranus is out to stir things up, and just to mention, when it is real and true, it will come to you..........
By Prasanna, Friday, July 11, 2008 11:08:05 AM
Nice one to read. But i can say that love can enter ones heart by seeing all these things and cross verifying it. Only for arranged marriages, we can see all these aspects. Love will come at first sight. But definately for any relationships, common interests must be there. Else nothing can be done. And some look for culture. Because this may lead to a devastating effect in the relationships.

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