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Stop Attracting The Wrong Kind of Man
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When we think about loveattracting our soul mate, settling down and getting marriedwe often go back to our childhood thoughts on this subject. Back then, we wondered how to meet Mr. Right. We thought the answer to ‘Who is my soul mate?’ was going to be easy.


A lot of women think that they should be in a relationship because it’s how to find love. We want to attract our soul mate and will take our chances in dating. We don’t even think twice. Do you ever notice that when you are single, friends and family are always asking you, "Are you seeing anyone?" or, "How’s your love life?"  If you say no, they all want to fix you up. On the other hand, if you are in a lousy relationship, they want to know, "Why are you with that loser?"


The quest of how to find Mr. Right has become so popular that there seem to be a million on-line dating sites, matchmaking services, books, and talk radio shows. Everywhere you look there is some reference to finding the love of your life. It seems like the only way to get into a relationship these days is to make it a full time job!

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I suggest that you take stock and decide why you want a relationship right now. Define your life and define Mr. Right. Do any of these reasons ring true?


  • I am lonely
  • All of my friends are in a relationship
  • I feel like a loser without a man in my life
  • My mother keeps asking me when I’m going to get married
  • I want to get over my divorce or last relationship
  • I want a man to support me so that I don’t have to work anymore
  • I want to get even with someone or make someone jealous


Many times women just jump right into a relationship or stay in one with the wrong person because they feel that it’s better than being alone.


Even if we are lonely, the people we choose to let into our lives need to be chosen carefully.


I am inviting you to really look at whether or not you are ready for a relationship right now. Maybe you just got out of a bad relationship, just got divorced, or had a death in the family and need to heal. There is nothing wrong with being alone and working on yourself to make sure that you are a complete, whole, and healthy person who is ready to give your all with the right person. I always liked the saying, "I’d rather be alone than with the wrong person."

A Beverly Hills Matchmaker, Marla Martenson is the author of Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting.

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By Stella, Wednesday, April 17, 2013 12:36:39 PM
Dear Prophet Krishna, I want to thank you (yet again) for bringing Silvia back to me. We had known each other for what seemed a lifetime and dated on and off during that time. A couple years ago some rich beau moved to town and swept her away from me. They got married after 2 months of dating and moved away, I had no idea where she was or how to get a hold of her till I saw your website ( and emailed you on (! I requested that you split them up and reunite us back with a love and Return spell. A few days later, out of nowhere, Silvia showed up on my doorstep. Said she had been miserable in her short marriage, the guy was great but not for her. I helped her file for divorce and we got married at a justice of the peace two days after her divorce was final. We have been happy every since. You have done more for me that I could possibly ever repay you for.
By lissa, Friday, December 24, 2010 05:35:58 AM
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By mary, Tuesday, August 19, 2008 10:50:25 PM
i am married and not happy this is my 2nd marriage ! i don't know what to do? i don't know if i'm coming or going! mary
By Prasanna, Friday, August 15, 2008 02:50:18 AM
Green has got much of bitter experiences. Thats why speaking like this. But do not feel dejected with your relationships. Because frustration starts where love ends. So do not have any relationships in frustration because you may not live the life that you wanted to live and end up with problems.
By Green, Monday, August 04, 2008 09:17:31 AM
When I got divorced a second time, I decided to take a break from relationships and try to find out what my problem was. I first wanted to make sure I can be happy on my own without a man. I didn't want to be one of those people who think they cannot live without a man. Also I wanted to deal with all my personal issues. I stayed single for a whole year before I met the man I am with today. Doing that made me realize I could be happy on my own with or without a man. I was not desperate and took my time to wait for Mr Right.
By Prasanna, Wednesday, July 30, 2008 11:30:05 AM
Hey melvin, i do not accept. Its not a trail and error and life is not a game to play with chances. If you have chosen a wrong person, then your life may fully end up with problems. You will regret for your decisions. Hence it is better to choose and analyse a person before taking any important decisions because prevention is better than cure.
By Melvin, Monday, July 28, 2008 06:51:30 AM
But how and when can you say that the man is wrong? And besides at first you do not really know who you're soulmate is right? So I believe when starting out there isn't really such a thing as wrong or right guy because everything happens like a trial and error.
By Lavern, Monday, July 21, 2008 11:26:13 PM
Yes, there’s nothing wrong to be alone and we have our family and friends to share our joys and frustrations in life. It should not be always the opposite sex or the other half of yourself. Chances if you force yourself and work hard to look for a soulmate, the chances would be very minimal. It is like giving yourself a time frame when you will meet your soul mate instead of waiting for the right time when he comes.
By Melvin, Saturday, July 12, 2008 10:43:23 PM
The title is somehow funny for me. The main reason why singles jump immediately is that because they want to experience it. They want to be loved. They feel they need someone now. In this case, I always think patience an passion plays a vital role here.
By Prasanna, Friday, July 11, 2008 01:45:32 PM
I think all the points said above reflects a person's mind who has inferiority complex. No one should think in such a way. It might have resulted because the person would not have any work. An idle mind is a devil's workshop. Everyone must be strong enough to accept problems and face it. As per the law of attraction, you may get your Mr.Right and also Mr. Wrong. It is upto your mental stability to choose the right one.

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