Chances are you're looking for love like a lot of other people. Millions of books have been written on how to find your soul mate. You believe that you need to work really hard attracting your love soul mate. You scan the room when you are out in a club, party, restaurant, the gym, or wherever you could attract some eligible singles. You ask friends if they know of anyone looking for love. You put your photo up on various web sites hoping your perfect soul mate will e-mail you. You go to mixers and singles parties hoping to change your destiny. Seriously, attracting your love soul mate is like having a second job!

So I’m about to lift a weight off your shoulders because I am suggesting here and now that you stop searching for your true love. That’s right, you no longer have to hope your perfect soul mate will show up at the next event that you go to. And you don’t have to worry anymore if the love of your life is in front of you in line at the supermarket.

When you are doing your inner work, meaning working on yourself, take time to do things just for you and your perfect soul mate will just come to you. Release the need to control that part of your life, stop looking for love, and believe in destiny taking control.

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It will feel effortless and magical when your love soul mate shows up one day on the bus or in spin class. You might be thinking, “Wow, this is too good to be true. The love of my life is just going to show up on my doorstep?” Well, no he is not. You still have to be out living your life. Go out and have fun.

You need to be out in the world to attract the right person. When you are out doing things, it is not with the mind set of looking for love or finding your soul mate. It is with the mind set of having a great time or having a new experience. Believe in destiny and that is when you will “magically” attract your love soul mate.

Here is an example of how “looking for love” can get you into trouble.

I have a single girlfriend named Gina. Whenever we go out for a drink, instead of having a relaxing time and enjoying my devastatingly fascinating conversation, her head is twisting around like Linda Blair in The Exorcist all night long, using her women’s intuition to attract a man. She actually misses the entire evening because she is so engrossed in looking around to see if her perfect soul mate has shown up yet. This is simply no way to live your life. Display confidence or enjoy the company you are with.

Remember that others can see right through it if you are acting desperate to meet your soul mate. Prove to the people you meet that you are someone capable of enjoying whatever is happening in this instant. Let people see that you are just out living your life with the ulterior motive of looking for love. Then you may be pleasantly surprised at what happens. Plus, you will be much more likely to meet and attract the love of your life who knows how to treat others with kindness and respect as you do.

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