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What Is The Most Powerful Way To Attract Love?
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Six years ago, I was hopelessly single. I couldn’t understand it. I had a great family and a wonderful circle of friends, but my true love was nowhere in sight. What is true love? I had no idea how to attract love or how to meet my soul mate.


It became the budding joke at every eventwho will I bring tonight? I thought about my lack of love constantly, and even wrote about it in a funny bantering waythe girl who only attracted “classic non-committal men”. I needed a hard lesson on how to find true love. I literally became the person I thought I wassingle, career oriented with an embarrassing collection of designer purses. Attracting love wasn’t on my radar. Looking back, I probably watched too much “Sex and the City.”


Later that year, with my love life floundering, I took a coaching course for work at NYU. As part of the course, we had to be “coached” by a classmate. There were 7 areas we could receive coaching in: Career (check), Finance (check), Fun (no problem), Physical Environment (check), Wellness (tackled that one many years ago), Personal Development (check), or Relationships (SOS!).


I was very resistant to this exercise, and I didn’t reveal much to my classmate about my love life. Instead, we used our sessions as time to chat.


I decided to come clean to the professor, who I much admired, and told him I needed a little coaching in the area of love and relationships. He knew the answer as soon as I started to speak. He said, “You have convinced yourself you are meant to be single, so you will be single. It’s the Law of Attraction, Jennifer. You know it very well in class.”

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And I did know the Law of Attraction very well, but for some reason I didn’t see how this applied to my love life and relationships. My professor coached me for only a half hour, but it was life changing. Now, I am married to my best friend and we have a beautiful 21 month old daughter.


So, what is the best way to attract love? Here are four easy tips to find your true love.


1. Be Yourself

Throw out the rules, throw out the games. Real love comes from an authentic place so you must be who you are without bogging yourself down with nonsense. None of us are perfecta true love will see the beauty in our flaws!


2. A Smile is Our Best Accessory

Forget about the notion that you have to look a certain way or go to certain places to find love. Live the best version of your life possible. Do things that bring you real joy. People are attracted to those who are happy and content! Decide to be happy, and let your face show it. Your love life will thank you!


3. Focus Deeply on How You Want to Attract Love

Create a list of qualities you want from a soul mate. Make sure your relationship qualities come from a deep place, not a shallow one! The deeper connection you have to the attributes you are looking for, the more likely you will be to attract true love into your life. Write qualities that will compliment who you are, and add balance to your already fabulous life!


4. Make Space for a Mate

If your closet is too full to fit another pair of shoes, why shop for more? If your life is jam packed and you are always with people, does the universe have time to send you someone else? By “filling” our schedules to avoid being alone, that gives the wrong message to the world! Relationships need time. By making space, we are sending a signal that we are available!



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By Rhoda, Wednesday, August 18, 2010 05:14:20 PM
But what of those of us who don't want a mate, but a companion? Not that person couldn't be the same, but there are those of us who have had a mate and a family, and are now, through no fault of our own, or perhaps because of it, alone and hating it. We KNOW ourselves and most of us don't hide who we are. We attend events that should have men and women our age in attendance, and find that there are few, if any, available. Now what?
By Helen, Sunday, February 08, 2009 02:01:18 PM
All of these tips are good and make great sense. I think it is all basic and simple advice also yet we as humans tend to complicate things for ourselves. Good luck to all seeking their true love.
By Prasanna, Friday, August 15, 2008 03:14:14 AM
The rule is simple. Give everyone to receive it. Show your love to all. So that you will be loved. This is the most powerful way to attract love. Do not wait for it. But make correct decisions and be natural. Live your life as you wish.
By Melvin, Monday, July 28, 2008 06:50:21 AM
"Forget about the notion that you have to look a certain way or go to certain places to find love. Live the best version of your life possible. Do things that bring you real joy. People are attracted to those who are happy and content! Decide to be happy, and let your face show it. Your love life will thank you!" This is a simple yet a powerful statement. Most people are not smiling after going with a lot of trials.
By Melvin, Sunday, July 27, 2008 02:19:08 AM
Green and Lavern I am really hoping you guys to have great relationships in the future. It is really hard to fail and to be heart-broken because from there it places all doubts on things and on how you could recover from it. That is the hardest thing there.
By Green, Sunday, July 20, 2008 02:09:29 PM
Good for you Lavern. When we get hurt and disappointed in love it can be really difficult to love again. I am still having that problems with it. I have been hurt and disappointed really badly that I am having a very tough time trying to love anyone. My heart just refuses to open up to anyone even though I want to.
By Lavern, Friday, July 18, 2008 11:39:17 PM
It was in my mid in my twenties when I worried a lot, my friends were dating with someone else and I’m stuck at home all alone. I was really wondering if in my entire life I would exxperience having a boyfriend. To cut the story short, I fell in love and some worst things happened. There was emotional problems every now and then. I think I regretted falling in love, there was a lot of complication and I want to quit love. But now I’m happily married to the love of my life, my husband, the first and the last man in my life.
By Melvin, Friday, July 18, 2008 01:48:32 AM
Being your own self will help you make the process more spontaneous. I mean you cannot just pretend to be someone that easy just to be good in the others eyes. This is something that is not really that easy to do. It will make tyour relationship pretentious and unreal.
By Prasanna, Wednesday, July 09, 2008 08:53:47 AM
I think make space for your mate and be yourself are the best tips. They will surely help a person in bringing about the true character. A person has to be him/her self. Because we cannot act in any way after the commitment and it is obvious that we have to live with the character and not the external beauty. We can no way hide our true colors. So better be yourself in finding the mate is the best tip.
By Melvin, Tuesday, July 08, 2008 09:34:04 PM
Another is just be yourself. Many people are wrong by thinking of perfecting their image so that people could notice it more. The thing is that most people love to see the spontaneity of one person. Sometimes this is even what makes a person more attracting.

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