Can You Speak to Dead Relatives?
They say that the life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living. Still many of us see "messages from dead relatives" in the little coincidences we see in life from time to time. It could be that we see someone who looks like the deceased or we hear the person’s favorite song. We may be recalling something favored by the dead relative and then miraculously this food, television, or song might manifest in our lives. Some people even experience objects moving, music boxes playing, and will hear voices. Some even have an apparition of the loved one – in a mirror or even just sitting across the room smiling and talking to them!
In order to get a message from a loved one who has passed away, you might want to try speaking to him or her. You have many options when choosing a method to speak with dead relatives. Find a form of communication that is comfortable when talking the deceased. You can speak with your loved ones through your dreams, thoughts, or with the help of psychics. Remember to keep an open mind and heart. Even if you do not receive confirmation your dead relatives heard you, you will be comforted knowing that you at least tried to communicate with them.
One of the simplest and fasted ways of communicating is by having a conversation in your head with your dead relative. Talk to him as if he were alive. Talk to him about anything, such as memories, events from your daily life, or problems you may be having.
Reconnect with dead relatives by writing them a letter or having a conversation using a journal. Address the letter or journal entry with your dead relative's name and begin jotting down thoughts and questions.
Be sure to leave a notepad and pen by your nightstand before going to bed. You can even buy an official dream journal. If you dream of a dead relative, you can write about what you saw in the dream so you will not forget it. The more you write down your dreams, the easier it is to remember them.
Remove all distractions when speaking with dead relatives, including televisions, phones, radios and noisy clocks, or air conditioners. Loosen clothing and relax by taking deep breaths. Surround yourself with photos and mementos of your loved one. Clear your mind and think only of the deceased relative you want to contact.
You can also try the technique of mirror gazing. Seated comfortably, relax, and gaze into the clear depth of the mirror without trying to focus on anything in particular. Unfocus your eyes as if you are looking into the distance and listen and watch. This attempt to contact the dead is known as the psychomanitum technique and is a form of scrying.
There are many different signs that a loved one may be trying to contact you from the grave. Flickering lights, flickering candle light, or a distraction that you cannot help but focus on...all of these are omens that you are making contact. However, whatever contact you do make will be very specific to you.