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How To Deal With The Loss Of A Loved One
How To Deal with Losing A Loved One Psychic Sylvia Browne, World-renowned Psychic Sylvia Browne pictures by Sylvia Browne

Everyone’s grief is relative to them – just as happiness is. I don’t like to quantify pain, but I feel that the death of a child is by far the most tragic loss one can go through. This doesn’t minimize the anguish you may feel when a parent, spouse, or friend passes away, since these are all life-altering events, but to lose a child is beyond comparison.

Yet even though death may seem unfair – and for those who are left behind, it certainly leaves a deep wound – it’s a part of life that’s as natural as eating or sleeping. In fact, the end is really the beginning for all of us, since our true Home is on the Other Side. I know that this may not be much comfort when we’re still caught here in “hell” (and this life is hell in the sense that we’re here to learn some difficult lessons), but our friends and family members who have passed over are all happy where they are!

I lost two more loved ones this past year, one of them being Abass Nadim, who was my Egyptian tour guide and dearest friend. He died of a heart attack while vacationing in Peru. First of all, I told him not to go on this trip, and warned him that if he did, he should not go climbing. He did both. I’ve been asked if I have the power to control other people’s lives, and while of course I can’t, I sometimes wish I could. I loved Abass, and even though he contacted me just after his death to tell me he was okay, I was still shocked and angry that this wondrous light went out of so many lives. A million memories filled my mind: his love of life and his children, the times we laughed and how he would call to cheer me up when I was going through a painful divorce. How will Egypt be the same without him? I wondered. I went through the normal stages of disbelief and shock, and then I remembered that this life is like a dream, and one day, we’ll all wake up and be with our loved ones again.

Similarly, just a week before he passed away, I’d expressed to my friend Kevyn Aucoin, the celebrity makeup artist, that I was worried about him. He just laughed it off. I won’t go into the details, but soon after, a beautiful, talented soul was lost to us. Kevyn gave me a message after he left this world, saying, “I’m sorry that I didn’t plant the flowers.” (Later, his family validated that he had been meaning to get some flowers planted.) Still, once again, I was left with that hollow ache and the often-asked question, “Why him?” When you see so many dark, evil entities living out their lives and blithely making everyone miserable, it’s almost impossible to understand why the gentle, caring ones among us are often taken so suddenly.

It may be difficult to comprehend, but there’s a reason why good people take their exit points early and cross over to the Other Side. You see, we each have five exit points that we can take to go Home. Many times, the most kindhearted people take them early because they’re tired of life, they feel that they’ve completed their mission for God and they’re simply ready to go. When I was 26 and had my near-death experience, I was told by a beautiful entity to go back to Earth because I had more to do, I could also faintly hear a nurse screaming, “Don’t go, Sylvia, we need you!” What really drew me back, however, was the fact that for a split second it entered my consciousness that I didn’t want to leave my only son (at the time), Paul, with my first husband.

If you haven’t ever believed in an afterlife, I can only tell you that I’ve received thousands of e-mails and letters from people who have visited the Other Side in dreams, astral travels, near-death experiences, and hypnosis regressions, and they all describe the same topographical features. How can these people from different religions, cultures, and ethnic groups – both skeptics and believers alike – all see the same thing? Statistically it’s an impossibility; and from the perspective of a researcher, when you keep running into identical accounts, you not only believe, you have confirmation. Personally, I’m convinced that our souls not only survive death, but they go to a place of beauty and peace where we’re all reunited with our loved ones who have passed before us.

Sylvia Browne is without question, "America's #1 Psychic," an internationally known psychic and medium.



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By alma, Thursday, July 16, 2009 04:39:03 PM
hi slyvia,I want to share what happen to me,I lost my brother. I ask to know, how I will know if HE is around me, he did let me know.this morning around 6:30am ( I saw the time ) I woke up I hear my name so loud by my ear. IT WAS HIS VOICE. AND ALSO HE USED TO CALL ME ONLY BY MY MIDDLE NAME. AND HE DID,IM SO HAPPY TO KNOW HE IS AROUND ME, BUT I STILL MISS HIM ALOT.I FEEL LESS DEPRESS AND SAD.THANK YOU GOD FOR MY PRAYER.
By alma, Wednesday, July 15, 2009 08:16:42 PM
I lost my brother,Im very depress and sad I dont know what to do, is very hard to cope with. IT FEEL LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY. I MISS HIM ALOT. I Will feel better if I know he is around me, how can I know. please help me.
By christine, Sunday, July 12, 2009 05:50:22 PM
syliva, my sister died on june 29 at 745pm i know the exact time and date because i was with her. i am greiving but i had to share .the love in the room with her and it was amazing.i know i charted this and did i ever know i had done this kind of thing before.i had always up to this point repressed greif,but i have learned from this. I come from a big family and stsrted loosing people at age 11.my little sister passed in 1975 it tore me up for 35 years i was wondering i knew i loved god but i didnt know what to do with it .know i embrace god and his whole army because i KNOW he loves me and all of humanaity.
By lynn, Monday, June 29, 2009 10:27:45 AM
Lynn, Monday, June 29, 2009 10:16:10 AM Hi everyone i agree death is not a easy thing to take and yes god has all the answer to everything that happen i lost my one and only sister i was 18 and she was 15 and it really hurt me so bad that i did not want to be here on earth because we were very close and were you seen one you seen the other she was killed by a drunk driver just before Christmas i remember the cop came up to our door and told us you better get to the hospital right away because your daughter was is a bad crash the person that she went with she was not suppose to go but she did i well never forget that day me and her was in the living room putting each other make up on and she had a boyfriend that my parent told stay away but he came by and told her she had to go and my parents were out shopping and me and him got in a fight because she did not want to go we were enjoying just the day together we were talking about Christmas's and we had we Christmas shopping the day before we always gave each other gifts so that was are last Christmas together it was the saddest day of my life so when we got there the doctors told us my sister was in a coma and would not come out of it but when went in the room i called her name she woke up and smiled she could not be moved she was dieing and i remember the tube she had in her throat and the iv in her chest and the anti shook pants she had on to keep the blood flowing to her heart but god gave us the 3 days to talk with her and the night that she was going to pass she called my dad in in and said to my dad the angels well be coming to take me home tonight my dad was older he went in the bathroom i thought he was going to have a heart attack my mom had a break down it was so hard on us all to have to lose her and that night i was in the room she told me she loved me and i held her hand she went into cardiac arrest and the doctor came in and were yelling hold on hold her hand she love you and i remember i was there trying my best i was crying the tears fell that day and than they told me i could go out now and when i did i look backed i knew she was gone her main artery was cut the person that was driving had went to a friend house and her and three other had to wait in the car they were driving a station wagon and they hit a medal telephone pole head on she took the impact hard they said because there was no beer or anything else in her system so she tensed up and was throwing out the front window of the car they flow her into the hospital and one boy leg was taking off the other boy had to have major surgery on his legs and the one girl only came out with a cut and and she walked away from the car crash instead of getting help and the driver only got a cut on his head and was in the same hospital i remember after she past i went down the hall way to his room riped out his iv and i told him it should of been him not my sister he now live in hell he drug attic he has children that is the same way so sad for those kids and his wife is a drug attic to but when i lost her i said god why her she so young i would of took her place i felt i had to be strong for my parent so i tried not to cry in front of them so they would not be upset i loved my family with all my heart i had a good family i held it in my parents wanted me so see a doctor because they new i was depressed and all but i choose not to and it was the wrong thing to do because i hurt so much and all i wanted to do is die right beside her i wanted out of this world but i never wanted my parents to hurt that way again but i was never the same after that day my sister car crash was two days before Christmas and two days after Christmas she past and 2005 on December 19 i lost my mom we went Christmas shopping me and my 3 children we came home found her on the floor my children ran in the house yelling gram we got your Christmas gifts get up gram my husband try to bring her back and she did come back long enough for me to tell her i loved her the pain in my heart that night i well never forget as i write this tears fall from my face she was so much a big part of my life we grow close she lived with me because we lost my dad he was 86 and he to had a stroke and lived 3 weeks after so my mom went trow alot so was the best mom in the world she was always there for me when i needed her the most she begin to have slight member lost but she was the best i miss her so much she would always say Lynn things are going to be OK we get throw and the love of a mother helped me throw so i lost my sister in DEC and my mom in DEC and my dad we took him home to pass away he lost his speech but one evening he said to us open the door he struggled to get it out so we opened the door and he was gone he went home he past before my mom so yes i feel for anyone out there that has lost a loved one you learn to deal but never forget its like it was yesterday and here i am in my 40 but many blessing to all you that had lost a love one and sometime it helps to talk to a stranger i have a my space if anyone need prayer it called prayer warrior for the lord feel free to add me and let me know if you need prayer i have other that joined to and they pray to so if you like to join let me know my email is lylafor7@aol.com talk to you soon blessings
By lynn, Monday, June 29, 2009 10:16:10 AM
Hi everyone i agree death is not a easything to take and yes god has all the answer to teverything that happen i lost my one and only sister i was 18 and she was 15 and it really hurt me so bad that i did not want to be here on earth because we were very close and were you seen one you seen the other she was killed by a drunk driver just before christmas i reamber the cop came up to our door and told us you better get to the hosptial t=right away because your daugter was is a bad crash the person that she went with she was not supose to go but she did i well never forget that day me and her was in the livingroom putting each other make up on and she had a boyfriend that my parent told stay away but he came by and told her she had to go and my parents were out shoping and me and him got in a fight because she did not want to go we were injoying just the day togearher we were talking about christmas andwe had we christmas shoping the day before we always gave each other gifts so that was are last christmas togeather it was the sadest day of my life so when we got there the doctors told us my sister was in acoma and would not come out of it but when went in the room i called her name she woke up and smiled she could not be moved she was dieing and i reamber the tube she had in her throt and the iv in her chest and the antishook pants she had on to keep the blood flowing to her heart but god gave us the 3 dadays to talk with her and the night that she was going to pass she called my dada in in and said to my dad the angels well be coming to take me home tonight my dad was older he went in the bathroom i thought he was going to have a heart attac my mom had a break down it was so hard on us all to have to lose her and that night i was in the room she told me she loved me and i held her hand she went into cardio areest and the doctor came in and were yelling hold on hold her hand she love you and i reamber i was there trying my best i was crying the tears fell that day and than they told me i could go oit now and when i did i look backed i knew she was gone her main artery was cut the person that was driving had went to a friend house and her and three other had to wait in the car they were driving a station wagon and they hit a medal telphone pole head on she took the inpack hard they said because there was no beer or anything elce in her system so she tenced up and was throwen out the front window of the car they flow her into the hosptial and one boy leg was taking off the other boy had to have major surgery on his legs and the one girl only came out with a cut and and she walked away from the car crash instead of getting help and the driver only got a cut on his head and was in the same hosptial i reamber after she past i went down the hall way to his romm riped out his iv and i told him it should of been him not my sister he now live in hell he drug attic he has children that is the same way so sad for those kids and his wife is a drug attic to but when i lost her i said god why her she so young i would of took her place i felt i had to be strong for my parent so i tryed not to cry infront of them so they would not be upset i loved my family with all my heart i had a good family i held it in my parents wanted me so see a dotor because they new i was depressed and all but i choose not to and it was the wrong thing to do because i hurt so much and all i wanted to do is die right beside her i wanted out of this world but i never wanted my parents to hurt that way again but i was never the same after that day my sister car cras was two days before christmas and two days after chistmas she past and 2005 on decmber 19 i lost my mom we went christmas shopping me and my 3 children we came home foung=d her on the floor my children ran in the house yelling gram we got your christmas gifts get up gram my husband try to bring her back and she did come back long enough for me to tell her i loved her the pain in my heart that night i well never forget as i write this tears fall from my face she was so much a big part of my life we grow close she lived with me because we lost my dad he was 86 and he to had a strok and lived 3 weeks after so my mom went trow alot so was the best mom in the world she was always there for me when i needed her the most she begin to have slight member lost but she was the bset i miss her so much she would always say lynn things are going to be ok we get throw and the love of a mother helped me throw so i lost my sister in dec and my mom in dec and my dad we took him home to pass away he lost his speach but one eveing he said to us open the door he struggled to get it out so we opend the door and he was gone he went home he past before my mom so yes i feel for anyone out there that has lost a loved one you learn to deal but never forget its like it was yesterday and here i am in my 40 but many blessing to all you that had lost a love one and sometime it helps to talk to a stranger i have a my space if anyone need prayer it called prayer warrior for the lord feel free to add me and let me know if you need prayer i have other that joined to and they pray to so if you like to join let me know my email is lylafor7@aol.com talk to you soon blessings
By Mary, Thursday, June 04, 2009 11:33:18 AM
I am so moved by your articles. I log on daily. I lost my mom,dad, brother, and several babies during pregnancy. It has been very difficult. I was wondering if I would live a long happy life with my husband Rodney and my two children? How do I post a question to you via e-mail? Love you, Mary R. (Irving, TX)
By Mary, Thursday, June 04, 2009 11:31:02 AM
By melisa, Tuesday, June 02, 2009 08:32:56 PM
my son died in 07 he was only 24, omg .why did this happen?and uno now that i think back to his last 2 to 3 weeks before he died its like he knew. things i now remember him saying, doing, and im tring to walk on . but all of a sudden he there walking in my mind. i will never feel the same, never, this hurt, goes deep, like i cant even decribe, how did i not know , how. there no fixing this. i just want him to come back.soooo need him to.
By patti, Tuesday, June 02, 2009 06:20:12 PM
i lost my husband buzz in 2004 and watched a man who loved his family,friends,and for over a year become someone he was not having suffered years from strokes and an aneurisym i loved this man so much and i am blessed to have been his wife and mother to austin &brandon,but after 5 years i am no closer to dealing with his loss i miss him so much and feel him around me all the time i believe i have been to the other side with him on several occasions... i look forward to seeing him again some day he was young only 48 years old i feel cheated and thank god i have our sons to keep his memory alive... thank you for reading patti in delaware
By patti, Tuesday, June 02, 2009 06:17:48 PM
i lost my husband buzz in 2004 and watched a man who loved his family,friends,and for over a year become someone he was not having suffered years from strokes and an aneurisym i loved this man so much and i am blessed to have been his wife and mother to austin &brandon,but after 5 years i am no closer to dealing with his loss i miss him so much and feel him around me all the time i believe i have been to the other side with him on several occasions... i look forward to seeing him again some day he was young only 48 years old i feel cheated and thank god i have our sons to keep his memory alive... thank you for reading patti in delaware

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