By Anastasia, Tuesday, July 15, 2008 08:39:25 AM
Thank you Sylvia for sharing this information, I enjoy knowing about The Other Side and your insight is valued. To Angie, I will not be so bold to answer your question as to "why?" instead I will share with you my experience. I am 46 y/o female. I grew up in extreme violence and sexual abuse - it was a way of life. I married into the same and my children also suffered. I have had two children who were sexually assaulted and two who were beaten - verbal abuse is par for the course in this environment. It took many years for me to heal from my own abuse and it was intensified by the abuse of my children. The shame, guilt and every other negative emotion that came was magnified when I had to, as an adult, aid in the healing of my child. I often questioned "why" - why would god allow this, why wasn't I protected, if god only loved me he would, how could god allow this to my child ... the question's are endless. I knew I could deal with my own pain, but when it came to my children I had feelings that were intense and uncontrollable. For my life, once I moved through the healing process and stopped assigning blame (very hard to do) I came to my soul's truth that my abusive experiences I chose to further my soul's growth. I know this is a very hard concept to accept - but it is MY truth. When it came to my children I came to know that they also chose to experience the horrible atrocities for their soul's growth but even more important chose me to be their mother to help them through it. Does this make the pain go away or the questions cease? No. It does, give meaning. Does it make it right what happened to my children, myself, you, or anyone else? No. In answer to the Angels, for me when I was younger, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that although the Angels did not step in and slaughter the monster who was ripping my soul apart with his perversion, they were there with me letting me know that I would be all right. I know they were there comforting me in the darkness with my fear and pain. Did I see them physically, no - and I did not realize it at the time - but I do know they were there not only for me, but also for my children. My youngest son know does not have the physical memory anymore of the abuse, but he is very sensitive to the dark energy of that abuse. My other children have not come to healing yet and are still very angry - I cannot fix them. I don't know if my story helps or hurts you - I pray it helps in so far that you and this child are not alone in your pain. The journey of healing and justice does not come at once, but it will come. I will light a candle for you and this child for healing and love to surround you.

By Anastasia, Tuesday, July 15, 2008 08:37:56 AM
Thank you Sylvia for sharing this information, I enjoy knowing about The Other Side and your insight is valued. To Angie, I will not be so bold to answer your question as to "why?" instead I will share with you my experience. I am 46 y/o female. I grew up in extreme violence and sexual abuse - it was a way of life. I married into the same and my children also suffered. I have had two children who were sexually assaulted and two who were beaten - verbal abuse is par for the course in this environment. It took many years for me to heal from my own abuse and it was intensified by the abuse of my children. The shame, guilt and every other negative emotion that came was magnified when I had to, as an adult, aid in the healing of my child. I often questioned "why" - why would god allow this, why wasn't I protected, if god only loved me he would, how could god allow this to my child ... the question's are endless. I knew I could deal with my own pain, but when it came to my children I had feelings that were intense and uncontrollable. For my life, once I moved through the healing process and stopped assigning blame (very hard to do) I came to my soul's truth that my abusive experiences I chose to further my soul's growth. I know this is a very hard concept to accept - but it is MY truth. When it came to my children I came to know that they also chose to experience the horrible atrocities for their soul's growth but even more important chose me to be their mother to help them through it. Does this make the pain go away or the questions cease? No. It does, give meaning. Does it make it right what happened to my children, myself, you, or anyone else? No. In answer to the Angels, for me when I was younger, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that although the Angels did not step in and slaughter the monster who was ripping my soul apart with his perversion, they were there with me letting me know that I would be all right. I know they were there comforting me in the darkness with my fear and pain. Did I see them physically, no - and I did not realize it at the time - but I do know they were there not only for me, but also for my children. My youngest son know does not have the physical memory anymore of the abuse, but he is very sensitive to the dark energy of that abuse. My other children have not come to healing yet and are still very angry - I cannot fix them. I don't know if my story helps or hurts you - I pray it helps in so far that you and this child are not alone in your pain. The journey of healing and justice does not come at once, but it will come. I will light a candle for you and this child for healing and love to surround you.

By BRENDA, Tuesday, July 15, 2008 12:44:30 AM
Sylvia, I miss my boyfriend alot and he passed away 6 months ago and he was always helping people all the time when he was here on earth,do you think he is doing more of that in heaven and also can he visit me.and is he visitig me. Brenda

By ollie, Monday, July 14, 2008 11:47:06 PM
to the lady with the nine year old boy ,thas a terrilbe thing to happen,with good doctors maybe he will get thur this with gods help.i've lived in hell for37yrs .after a while you don;t care what the so called good poeple have any more.

By Angie, Monday, July 14, 2008 10:39:20 PM
Sylvia you said if we call upon Archangels they will come? Then why did they not come when a 9 year old was drugged, sodimized, beaten and tortured, for almost 2 years? Please explain...Angie

By patricia, Monday, July 14, 2008 05:38:35 PM
yes sylvia. I miss my family and my husband very much i was married for 46 years and would like to no if he still thinks about me and if he is ok and well. i miss him very much he had a hard life he died with lou gerics des. we went through a lot together. and i loved and still love him very much. but are luck was never good but we have 7 beautiful childern. hope to hear from you thank you for your help.well i ever be happy again pat

By Christina, Monday, July 14, 2008 03:27:11 PM
Now I understand what a buddhist was teaching me long ago, about the Seven Levels, or Seven Spheres... I had a basic understanding but this is very detailed. Thank U Sylvia. Christina.