Libra rules the zodiac's seventh house of relationships, and he's at his best when he has a companion to share his life with. A romantic idealist, he'll wander the Earth looking for the perfect match. In fact, he'll wait years until the right person comes along, leaving friends and family wondering why someone with his charm and good looks is still single.
Attractive Libra is ruled by beauty-planet Venus. With his wit, finesse and style, he has plenty of admirers. Many Libras sport finely balanced features and a cute set of dimples. Grooming is important to aesthetic Libras, and he expects his partners to maintain good appearances. Since outgoing Libra loves to mingle, he could meet his true love at a party, a singles event...anywhere he can dress up or display his fine social graces.
As the sign of the scales, he's constantly seeking balance, and for that reason, it's crucial that he chooses partners wisely. He can be a softie at times, so if you're the dominating type known for steamrolling people with your demands, Libra could fall at your feet. Don't get cocky though. Libra is big on equality and fairness, and he'll soon rebel, passive-aggressive style. One minute he's showering you with gifts, the next he's gone, leaving you sorry you every unleashed the diva act on him. He needs an open-minded mate who wants to share and share alike. He's equal parts sugar and spice. He likes to debate (for fun only — his peace-loving sign hates conflict). He wants to be with someone who's passionate about a few issues, though not too forceful. His gentle disposition can't deal with an imposing personality.
A Libra pitfall is dependency. Since his sign rules the zodiac's seventh house of "other people," he may lean too heavily on those around him, expecting them to carry his emotional baggage. This can prevent him from developing a key relationship skill: the ability to feel absolutely whole and content by himself.
Libras hate to be rushed and may take years to commit, driving their eager-to-settle-down mates crazy. Like the scales the represent his sign, he's always going back and forth, "Is he right for me or not? Could I do better or is this as good as it gets?" While it's fine to take it slow, he could lose some great catches due to his endless deliberating. Libra may be the one sign that actually NEEDS an ultimatum: marry me or else!
